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Seems like the trend these days is for women to shave/wax their pubic hair. Any thought on whether more women go bare than not ? I used to think that shaving was really weird, but I’ve seen the error of my ways and realize, that it’s much sexier. So, here’s my question: How does one initiate such a conversation with their sexually-repressed wife? While we were having sex I wanted to suggest to her that she try shaving, or I could shave her. But my guess is she’ll probably freak out, and tell me to find find someone else if I don’t like her just the way she is. So, it’s essentially a rhetorical question. 🙁

She have problem with sex? She have problem with position? She have problem in orgasm? I don’t know if she feel anything.  I don’t know what to say. I am confused need help.

Is it good to lick pussy deeply? And if a little piss goes into a man’s or woman’s mouth, is that harmful?

This may sound like a very dumb question but does it really matter how much ejaculate is released? I have never released a lot, no matter what the situation. Are women aroused by the amount of ejaculate? My wife never commented about my small amount. However, when we were going thru infertility testing many years ago, the urologist asked me if the specimen I produced at his office was a typical amount. We found out that I was sterile and that conception would not happen. Oh well, that was 35 years ago. Since that time, I have not placed any emphasis on ejaculation in any amount. In fact, it really doesn’t matter if I ejaculated at all. Is there a way to not ejaculate? Orgasm could be easier that way for me if we didn’t have a clean up of that useless stuff.

How do I get my lover to manscape? He thinks it’s gay. In the mean time I have to eat hair!!! Ugh!

I’m 48 and in the past year have noticed that it is becoming increasingly harder to orgasm and cum. I usually can make this happen on my own through masturbation but this has too become increasingly harder to do. When I do cum it is usually in small amounts and without a lot of force. 48 is way too young to be dealing with this issue especially for someone that has always enjoyed sex to its fullest.

We met three years ago. I recall he had some degree of difficulty with erection on our first night together. I thought it was performance anxiety and didn’t pay much attention to it. We dated long distance for a while, and when together, he seemed as much interested in sex as me, disregarding occasional issues with erection. He moved in with me and that was the end of it. All of a sudden it seemed that he couldn’t care less about sex. Nothing turned him on. No sexy lingerie, no sexual innuendos. We fought and jeopardized the relationship over this but instead we got married and now have a baby. I married under the condition that we’d see a counselor, which we did for the past 10 months. As things improve between us, erections worsen. He says it’s the result of three years of pressure, but I know the problem was there from day 1. He’s healthy, his testosterone is perfect, normal weight. I’m 36 and he’s 47. My questions are: can the lack of interest be the result of fear of failure? If so, why does he still try three years (and some therapy) later to deny that it all started with his physical problems and not vice versa?

I am 57. In recent years I have experienced difficulty keeping an erection and it’s getting worse. I have used Viagra/Cialas,.. and they work fine. But I’m starting to need higher doses, and the effect doesn’t last very long. I am in very good shape (work out every day), no health issues. I don’t smoke, my testosterone shot down with out explanation from 550 to 200. after some tests, I am now taking testosterone replacement therapy. The gel underarm was fine, but now I am on my second pelet under the skin. Overall I feel real good, and my muscle tone has improved, but I feel like my penis is shrinking. Like in a flacid state it gets real smal and lifeless. What could be causing this? I feel like I am too healthy for this sincerely. P.S. I am an executive for a large company, so I do have some stress right now.

I am 43 and haven’t had sex in 4 years. My husband thinks I cheated because vagina is loose. Why would it be?

I’m 49 and my wife is 50…She said that she has NO sex drive. Is it me?? We used to have great sex…………………How can we get back to the old us??? Thanks for your help!!