Is it okay to have small inner labia? Mine are tiny. I don’t look like other women I’ve seen. No man has ever mentioned it, but still I feel embarrassed. Is anything wrong with me? Am I normal?

I’m 58 and have difficulty ejaculating. Sometimes it happens with oral or with intercourse, just not very often. My companion really wants me to come inside her, and so do I, but too often, I lose my erection before the big moment. It feels like there’s a lack of stimulation when I’m inside her. I don’t “feel” anything. Lubrication isn’t an issue, she has plenty and we aren’t bashful about using synthetic lube. For reasons of knee pain and the fact that we’re overweight, the only intercourse position that works is her lying on her back and me on my right side with my torso at a right angle to hers. Missionary hurts my knees and I’m too tall, compared to her, for doggie to work comfortably. Do you have any suggestions to continue the stimulation on the head of my penis to build up an ejaculation after penetration?

Hello. I have 2 questions

1 .If men or women swallow a small amount of semen/sperm,can sperm in the stomach cause semen or sperm allergy? Or infertility?

2. If there is a cut in the mouth and sperm contact blood, can it come in bloodstream and cause anti-sperm antibody and infertility or sperm allergy?

How can I loosen my vagina? It’s too tight and when he puts it in, it hurts.

When I was younger my size was right at 8 3/4 inches. But now that I am 45, I’m around 6 1/2 on a good day. Where did it go? My penis is shrinking! I have not read anything so far that gives me any answers to this question. Do you know???

What kind of oil should I use for fucking? How can I fuck her back side because it’s so tight?
How can I improve sex with my wife?

My husband ejaculates before he enters the vagina. We are in our mid-twenties. It’s so frustrating because he leaves me sexually excited but frustrated. What can we do about it? I really love him!

Please please answer my question because I am very angry and upset and I can’t find an answer in my city. I am male and when I was 14 years old I had anal sex using saliva for lubrication. I’ve heard that  98% of saliva is water, but that saliva also has DNA. If another person’s saliva enters my rectum, can I absorb the DNA of this other person? Can the DNA  of saliva get into my bloodstream from my rectum? Please answer me. Thanks.

Can sperm cells be absorbed in the rectum and enter the bloodstream? What happens to sperm in rectum?

My wife does not like sex toys and won’t use them. What can I do?