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My boyfriend and I haven’t been together very long. We had sex for the first time not too long ago and it brought up some ongoing issues he has with Premature Ejaculation (PE). He hasn’t been in a relationship in quite some time and he says that 95% of the time when this happens, it was when he had had a couple drinks. I’ve never encountered anything like this and was unsure of how to be supportive. I’m not sure what to say that will still uphold his manhood. In my eyes, I’m not bothered at all by this issue. I’ts still early and I realize we still need more time to be comfortable with each other. Maybe that was my first mistake. Nonetheless, if there are any words of wisdom you may have for me, i would greatly appreciate them. Thank-you!

I am 60 years old in a few months. Have not had successful erection to ejaculation in approximately 12 years. Diabetic, and low testosterone. Treating both medically.

Is the diabetes just plain going to prevent erections again, regaddless of whether I get the Testosterone back?

My 55-year-old husband’s fantasy is for me to have sex with a black man. He gets very aroused by this fantasy. He also enjoys watching interracial porn–black men, white women. I’m not interested in sex with anyone but him. I don’t want to fuck a black man, or any other man. But my husband keeps harping on this fantasy. Why? How can I make him stop?

I have been looking for anything about men with this disorder. It started only 1 month ago and is increasing in frequency and intensity. I’ve read that the male version is called priapism, but I am having the symptoms that women report. I am having over 50 orgasm a day, and they all feel very, very, very, good—at least for now. My testicles may ache for a while but that does ease. I am in my 50’s. It started after a separation from my wife. Because of spiritual reasons, one night, I refused to masturbate and fell asleep in great tension. I was awakened having one orgasm after another.  I fell asleep and was awakened 3 more times that night in the same way. Now I am having spontaneous orgasms day and night. I am desperately seeking answer because I don’t know what’s happening. If not for the stories women tell about PGAD I  would be lost. But I need to know about MEN.PLEASE HELP!!!! P.S. there is never much fluid secreted, but from the way the orgasms feel, the bed should be soaked.

Please advise where I can get yohimbine to treat male impotency. Thank you.

I am 53 years old. I find my organ not erecting smartly or lasting long. I discharge very prematurely. I have full desire but can’t carry on as I wish. Can you help?

My vagina is horribly loose and I need some advice.

He sends me his pictures in the nude. Is it normal?

I am married for 15 years and have a good sex life, but my partner likes only one position, me on top missionary.  I’ve tried many times to convince her to try the doggie style position but she completely refuses and justifies it by saying that she felt a pain in her pussy so i could not proceed. I’d really like to try doggie so I wonder if there is a solution.

Is it okay to have small inner labia? Mine are tiny. I don’t look like other women I’ve seen. No man has ever mentioned it, but still I feel embarrassed. Is anything wrong with me? Am I normal?