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Hi sir, I am a 20-year-old male. I ejaculate in 30 to 45 seconds during masturbation. Is this premature ejaculation or not???
Please answer my question. God bless you.

Is sex better after 70? I’ve heard it feels better at that age. Is that true?

My husband and I have been together for 15 years. We’re soulmates and still very much in love. He still flirts with me and I know he’s attracted to me, but we don’t make love very often at all. I try to turn him on—wear skimpy clothes—and he rejects me. It hurts & humiliates me, makes me doubt myself & my femininity. How can I seduce and arouse him and make him want to make love more frequently? This hurts so bad.

Hello Sir. I am a 20-year-old male from India. I am suffering from anxiety about masturbation, penis size, and a bent penis. Some information says that masturbation is normal and my penis is normal. But then I also find other information that says differently. And I am suffering from ED and PE. Please tell me what I can do. How can I treatment my sex problems and anxiety????

I have been worried about taking Cialis and the other PDE5 inhibitors because of the fear of retina side effects, or hearing side effects. I understand from my research that Cialis has the least chance of having retina side effects among the PDE5 inhibitors? Is this true among the medicines, Cialis, Viagra, Levitra and Stendra?

Do I have anything to worry about regarding my eyes from taking Cialis? I am a male, 57, and not on any drugs.

Also, how is Cialis regarding hearing side effects?

Thank you very much.

Randy

Hello Michael, I’m wondering if there’s any advice you have for me. I’m a 28-year-old women dating at 33 year-old-man. He’s the kindest most partner-like boyfriend I have had. Except when it comes to sex. I want it at least once a week, because he’s so damn kind and attractive, my body wants him. But he could literally go forever without wanting me that way. Also, we both have yet to have orgasms with each other, so that makes me want to work on sex even more, work together to create and amazing sex life. Talking about it doesn’t really seem to help…unless I’m doing it wrong. What should I do?!!! He’s too too great to leave for something like that but it’s important to me and we keep fighting about it. I just want to know the best way to approach this.

My wife and I waited to have sex until we got married. I am 26 and married 3 weeks but can’t get a full boner for some reason.  Maybe it’s because I have been doing a lot of wanking to porn in the last year!!!!!!…. And now I can’t get it up for my wife. I really love her and am very attracted to her. Maybe it’s fear of having sex. Or too much porn fucked me up…. PS Cialias doesn’t work for me.

I love to be touched. All the time. I want hugs and kisses daily. He does kiss me … but when it comes to sex, I almost have to beg for hugs and touching.  I could happily have sex every day, but I’m prepared to settle for once a week. I never refuse him. So how often do we do it? About once a month. When we do have sex, it’s great but way too far in between times. He’s rarely in the mood. This feels so unfair. I’m broken hearted. He’s the first man in my entire 47 years of life to say no to sex and he’s 15 years younger than me. How do I handle this?  Please help! I pleasure myself more now than when I was single.

My husband and I, 35 and 29, have been happily married for thee years, but have always struggled with intimacy. From the start, my husband has always been pretty happy just cuddling in bed with occasional sex here and there, like about once every month or two. I on the other hand, prefer to have sex more often about once weekly. We have been able to compromise with the frequency of sex, but one issue has remained. He does not seem very “in tune” to me while we’re being intimate. For example, while I give him oral sex, most times he lays there and doesn’t put a single finger on my body. I look up at him from time to time and he looks like he’s in another world. He doesn’t touch or grab me or finger me to let me know he’s enjoying it or wanting me. In fact, I’d guess he were asleep if it weren’t for his erection. Again, during intercourse, he does not touch my body much. I would love for him to get aggressive with me, squeeze me, throw me around, or just simply caress me but I really get nothing. He also always wants me to be on top and he just lays there. I don’t feel the desire on his end. I assume he enjoys it because he does always orgasm by the end. I’ve only orgasmed with him three times in the last three years. I don’t even mind not having orgasms with him as I know this is difficult but I would love more passion and desire on his end. I’ve talked to him about this multiple times over the years and nothing really changes. I tell him that I feel he’s not that into it and that I don’t feel desired. He just doesn’t seem to get it. What to do?

I was reading your article on loose and tight vaginas. Since I turned 30, I’ve noticed that I feel tighter—and not just during sex but also when I insert a tampon or my NuvaRing (for birth control). I see my OBGYN regularly and recently. I tried to ask about this but we were discussing other things and he forgot to answer this question and I forgot to re-ask. What can this be caused by? Why am I feeling tighter?