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We are both in our 60s. My wife has bad knees and I really want to do the doggy style position with her. She is afraid of hurting her knees (and I don’t want to hurt her either). Are there any good variations that don’t stress the knees? She is my second wife — my first wife passed away with cancer and we both enjoyed doggy style a lot. I want to enjoy it with my new wife.

I am 80 years old. I take two pills for my prostate, one pill for blood pressure, and one pill for cholesterol. I am also taking pain killers for facial shingles contacted in 2021. I take Viagra and up until two months ago everything great in our sex life. Then all of a sudden, I am coming before I start intercourse and I do not experience orgasm. What do you think?

I am a cuckold type guy. I feel much better and horny when I think about inviting another guy into our bed room to fuck my wife in front of me. I like that better than fucking my honey myself. But this is not possible in reality. Perhaps I could enjoy my fantasy using an online platform. How can I get introduced to a believable man who can help with this, while protecting my privacy?

I have been talking to a couple of my buddies about men aging and not having dependable erections any more. So all things considered if you don’t want to be defendant on drugs for the rest of your life we are hearing a lot about a simple penal implant to correct this issue. Easy , dependable , sustainable erections sounds like a win , win , situation for men covered by Medicare too. Have you had any feed back from the woman’s side on how they feel about that? Thanks P.C.

There’s a hot wife who follows me on Only Fans. But she is posting less and less these days. How to I get her to post more? Have her just post to me in my inbox?

My wife finally experienced orgasm with the help of a vibrator after many years of marriage. For the first couple of years, she described the feeling as a wave tingly pleasure that would start from her clitoris and shoot up to her ears followed by many very shallow but pleasant contractions around the surface of her vulva. Now after several years, she has a completely different feeling. No longer is there an electrical whoosh feeling. She now has much deeper and stronger contractions but fewer when the orgasm “catches” as she puts it. I know this because I can feel and count them with my finger or tongue. Overall it seems to take her a bit longer to come than before. Was was 15-20 min, now takes like 30 mins in average. Overall she misses her previous pattern and wonders if it will ever come back. Is this change a normal thing that females go through over the years? Or is this a permanent change? There really is no change in her overall health while her orgasm style has been evolving.

Ok, so a friend and I, both males, have shared pictures of our wives for years now. One night we were looking through my wife’s nudes and I told him he could jerk off if he wanted. I could tell he was kinda nervous so I started to unzip my pants, and almost immediately he did the same. We both had our cocks out and were stroking. I think I’m bi curious but not sure. However, I do know that I kept glancing down to see him pull on his dick. We’ve also sent each other pictures of our cocks, and I’ve always felt the need and gotten excited for others to talk about mine, for them to describe it, talk about what details they noticed, especially if they write a fantasy scenario and use details describing my cock. I’ve done the same for his cock but this was the first time I had seen it in person. A couple days later I finally asked if he had been curious or tried to look at mine and he said he had sort of glanced down as well and I said maybe we could do it again soon. For a long time I’ve tried to get him and my wife into a 3-some. I’d love to see his thick swollen cock in her hand as her lips slid over the head and onto the shaft making it disappear inch by inch. One other thing I’d love is for her to suck my cock with him behind her slow fucking her. We’ve talked about it countless times but I’m not convinced he’s into it as much as I am. How can I tell if he would feel comfortable doing that? And how could I get him to write in-depth fantasy scenarios featuring my cock?

I have read that the vagina contains folded layers of muscle that has great flexibility to accommodate penises and children entering the world, and that child delivery does not alter its size.

I have a penis of average thickness and shorter than average circumcised length. After being married for ten years and sex life of a few times per week my wife went cold on sex. It went to once a month. Previously, my suddenly less-than-enthusiastic wife had always claimed and appeared to be satisfied,. I don’t understand why. I believe in lots of foreplay. Satisfying her has always been my priority.

I found her vagina when we did have sex to be very different, from my feel with my fingers to my penis, her vagina would be wet like normal but very loose, my penis flopped around in her vagina very different to the past This went on for around 6 to 8 months, I had asked her was she masturbating with something, with an open mind, no. Are you having sex with someone else, no. After 12 months her vagina started to go back to its old self, she had also moved offices a couple of months earlier also. My suspicions only grew more, she would not admit to an affair however she slipped and said where her boss lived when we drove through a suburb, street were he lived—35 klm from their office. While at a colleague of theirs 50 birthday party, I was advised of what had been office gossip of their behavior and that HE was known for office flings and was nick named Donkey because he was hung like one.

She has never admitted to it, but does get the shits if anything is spoken about the situation. Years down the track, her vagina has never been like it again except after our son was born, it took less than a couple of months and it was back to normal also.

My point is that a vagina does change in tension if it is constantly being used with some much larger than it is familiar with in the past.

After many years of not mentioning this, my husband just revealed that he masturbated because I gained weight. There was a time when he didn’t have sex with me. I often told him how much I missed being with him. I never knew he was self-pleasuring as he drank so much and I considered it the reason for no sex. Even after all these years, I am very hurt. He is older than I am, and can no longer have sex. How can I resolve this?

How common is it for a man of 65 to have a high sex drive and no problem with getting an erection? I’ve just ended an 8 year relationship due to his constant demand for sex. I am nearly 60 and sex was becoming unbelievably painful. He’s always been like this but I assumed over time, this would naturally ease but it didn’t. He could easily have sex every day.