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My husband and I have been married 5.5 years, and I’m confused. Our sexual frequency has always been a problem. I’ve always been the one to demand sex. Beginning last year, I just stopped doing this. In the meantime, coincidently my husband was dumped by his very best friends. We spent a very hard time with no sex at all. I got mad, and had many questions about his sexual appetite. Last summer on vacation, I observed him look at both men and women. One dinner he was drunk and did oral sex to his cigar… anyway… at the end he confessed his masturbation habit and that he loves to play with his anus. This year he went to hypnotherapist and quit his porn habit. Since January he has been very shy and depressed. What shall I do?

I’m unmarried and in my religion, it is not allowed to masturbate. But sometimes I feel a great sex drive, and want release. Nocturnal emissions are allowed. Is there a specific sleep position that stimulates nocturnal emissions? Or can I wear something on my penis to do this?

So I’ve been trying to get my wife to open up more about sexual experimentation. Then I had a good friend over at our house for a few drinks. We were drinking in the kitchen with the wife, who got pretty drunk. After a while I had to use the restroom. I heard my friend yell, “What the fuck?!” I peek back in and she is pulling at his belt trying to get to his junk. I said nothing. Here she was being experimental, and I was OK with it. As I return, I come around the corner and she’s still in front of him but kneeling and he had his head back and eyes closed. I see her giving him head. That was our first threesome and it lasted quite a while. The next morning, hung over, she claimed she didn’t remember anything and didn’t want to talk about it because if what I said happened really happened, she regretted everything. Meanwhile, I’m convinced part of her loved it. My question: Why should I believe she doesn’t remember anything?

We are both in our 60s. My wife has bad knees and I really want to do the doggy style position with her. She is afraid of hurting her knees (and I don’t want to hurt her either). Are there any good variations that don’t stress the knees? She is my second wife — my first wife passed away with cancer and we both enjoyed doggy style a lot. I want to enjoy it with my new wife.

I am 80 years old. I take two pills for my prostate, one pill for blood pressure, and one pill for cholesterol. I am also taking pain killers for facial shingles contacted in 2021. I take Viagra and up until two months ago everything great in our sex life. Then all of a sudden, I am coming before I start intercourse and I do not experience orgasm. What do you think?

I am a cuckold type guy. I feel much better and horny when I think about inviting another guy into our bed room to fuck my wife in front of me. I like that better than fucking my honey myself. But this is not possible in reality. Perhaps I could enjoy my fantasy using an online platform. How can I get introduced to a believable man who can help with this, while protecting my privacy?

I have been talking to a couple of my buddies about men aging and not having dependable erections any more. So all things considered if you don’t want to be defendant on drugs for the rest of your life we are hearing a lot about a simple penal implant to correct this issue. Easy , dependable , sustainable erections sounds like a win , win , situation for men covered by Medicare too. Have you had any feed back from the woman’s side on how they feel about that? Thanks P.C.

There’s a hot wife who follows me on Only Fans. But she is posting less and less these days. How to I get her to post more? Have her just post to me in my inbox?

My wife finally experienced orgasm with the help of a vibrator after many years of marriage. For the first couple of years, she described the feeling as a wave tingly pleasure that would start from her clitoris and shoot up to her ears followed by many very shallow but pleasant contractions around the surface of her vulva. Now after several years, she has a completely different feeling. No longer is there an electrical whoosh feeling. She now has much deeper and stronger contractions but fewer when the orgasm “catches” as she puts it. I know this because I can feel and count them with my finger or tongue. Overall it seems to take her a bit longer to come than before. Was was 15-20 min, now takes like 30 mins in average. Overall she misses her previous pattern and wonders if it will ever come back. Is this change a normal thing that females go through over the years? Or is this a permanent change? There really is no change in her overall health while her orgasm style has been evolving.

Ok, so a friend and I, both males, have shared pictures of our wives for years now. One night we were looking through my wife’s nudes and I told him he could jerk off if he wanted. I could tell he was kinda nervous so I started to unzip my pants, and almost immediately he did the same. We both had our cocks out and were stroking. I think I’m bi curious but not sure. However, I do know that I kept glancing down to see him pull on his dick. We’ve also sent each other pictures of our cocks, and I’ve always felt the need and gotten excited for others to talk about mine, for them to describe it, talk about what details they noticed, especially if they write a fantasy scenario and use details describing my cock. I’ve done the same for his cock but this was the first time I had seen it in person. A couple days later I finally asked if he had been curious or tried to look at mine and he said he had sort of glanced down as well and I said maybe we could do it again soon. For a long time I’ve tried to get him and my wife into a 3-some. I’d love to see his thick swollen cock in her hand as her lips slid over the head and onto the shaft making it disappear inch by inch. One other thing I’d love is for her to suck my cock with him behind her slow fucking her. We’ve talked about it countless times but I’m not convinced he’s into it as much as I am. How can I tell if he would feel comfortable doing that? And how could I get him to write in-depth fantasy scenarios featuring my cock?