I’m a 20-year-old woman with ocd. I masturbate compulsively. If I am about to ejaculate and stop stimulation, where does the fluid go? Sometimes I masturbate very intensely, and it feels like a pint comes out. If I stop b4 climax, will it all leak out? Will it cause problems in my body if I stop b4 it comes out? I feel like I need biology facts, not reassurance. (Maybe a bit of reassurance, too.)
I’m diabetic, type 2. I can’t get an erection. Is there any hope for me?
I read your Psychology Today article about the study showing that chamomile gel applied to the vulva and vagina offers benefits very similar to estrogen creams. I’m very interested in trying it. Would you please suggest a product and where I can purchase it? I’m having no luck finding that specific product online.
The position: Female on top of male, full body contact, face to face, penis inside her. He is stationary on his back facing up, she is facing down, she slides back and forth causing penetration and withdrawal.
My girlfriend does this. It gives her intense clitoral stimulation.
She starts off slowly with deliberate movements but ends in surprisingly very vigorous and rapid back-and-forth movements.
I don’t know what this is correctly called or the right term for it.
Is this a popular or common position and sexual movement or motion? I’ve never really heard anyone discuss it.
I have made plenty of sex dates with my wife, but she fails to follow thru with them. We even go so far as to discuss the positions we want to try and where. Then she backs out. We have sex maybe 2 or 3 times a month. I would like to know why she won’t follow through.
When not aiming to have kids & using condoms, I remove my penis from her vagina after ejaculating to avoid condom breakage. But what if she isn’t finished? How can she finish?
Do you know if this penis pump helps seniors with ED?
I am a 68 year-old-male having a great deal of difficulty reaching orgasm with a partner but not by myself. I have read your material and am ready to find a therapist but… I want to find one with experience in this area and none of the usual search techniques give information on whether this is a practice area for the therapists. I am fine with remote sessions.
What percentage of women enjoy performing fellatio? If they do enjoy it, what are the common reasons?
The main subject of my query is the current cultural mayhem over what’s moral sexual behaviour and what can be safely deemed as “harassment” without demonizing the sexuality of a particular subset of people. The main concern being specifically the age of consent and whether it should be lowered to 14 and a cultural commotion of sexualizing or objectifying young teenage girls. While I am familiar with some literature on male sexuality which says they have greater sex desire and desire for sexual variety and I completely want to respect this, but sometimes women are just reduced to their body parts and the desire in general as portrayed in media (outside of pornography) is also objectifying women. While this is true many arguments have otherwise insinuated that women themselves revel in wearing clothes, applying makeup and making themselves be sexually desirable and thus have no ground to cry about excessive sexualization and objectification, claims which have a truth to them. A clear manifestation of this dilemma is street harassment. Many women feel uncomfortable about stares and comments on their body on streets, but men don’t see the same behaviour as harassing when it happens to them, showing clearly that it is a female perception. Amidst all this mayhem, sir, I would like to know whether sexual objectification is actually real or is it a myth and if so then how can women stop feeling objectified or used for their bodies or harassed on streets.
If you don’t get an appropriate answer, you will then be offered the opportunity to ask him anything you want about sex for FREE.



