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In my community, we do not have sex with a partner until we get married. I’m single and have compulsive masturbating challenges, and I want to know if it is safe to edge till my bladder is full, and not let it come out, that much liquid. Also, why do I feel the need to orgasm and ejaculate? I do not enjoy the massage part of masturbation- only if I feel intense pressure and orgasmic release. Can you please clarify this for me?

I am a 70-year-old woman married to an 82-year-old man. Because of age and health problems, he cannot have intercourse, and shows no interest in any other forms of intimacy. I frequently have solo sex and he is aware of that. The problem is I feel so guilty and miss intimacy with a partner. Any suggestions? Sex outside of the marriage is not an option for me.

I am 64 and have sex without any help from drugs three times a day. My girl is 37 and says she loves it. So how long do i have ? My father is 87 and still chases my mother around lol.

I’m a 20-year-old woman with ocd. I masturbate compulsively. If I am about to ejaculate and stop stimulation, where does the fluid go? Sometimes I masturbate very intensely, and it feels like a pint comes out. If I stop b4 climax, will it all leak out? Will it cause problems in my body if I stop b4 it comes out? I feel like I need biology facts, not reassurance. (Maybe a bit of reassurance, too.)

I’m diabetic, type 2. I can’t get an erection. Is there any hope for me?

I read your Psychology Today article about the study showing that chamomile gel applied to the vulva and vagina offers benefits very similar to estrogen creams.  I’m very interested in trying it. Would you please suggest a product and where I can purchase it? I’m having no luck finding that specific product online.

The position: Female on top of male, full body contact, face to face, penis inside her. He is stationary on his back facing up, she is facing down, she slides back and forth causing penetration and withdrawal.

My girlfriend does this. It gives her intense clitoral stimulation.

She starts off slowly with deliberate movements but ends in surprisingly very vigorous and rapid back-and-forth movements.

I don’t know what this is correctly called or the right term for it.

Is this a popular or common position and sexual movement or motion? I’ve never really heard anyone discuss it.

I have made plenty of sex dates with my wife, but she fails to follow thru with them. We even go so far as to discuss the positions we want to try and where. Then she backs out. We have sex maybe 2 or 3 times a month. I would like to know why she won’t follow through.

When not aiming to have kids & using condoms, I remove my penis from her vagina after ejaculating to avoid condom breakage. But what if she isn’t finished? How can she finish?

Do you know if this penis pump helps seniors with ED?