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I am 44 years old. My lover accuses me of having sex with other men because my vagina is sometimes loose. But really I am not sleeping with anyone else. How can I make him believe me? I can not explain why my vagina is loose sometimes. And it’s just sometimes, not all the time, sometimes it’s tight. Maybe you can explain this? Thank you very much.

I am 25 and I feel very sexually attracted to an older married man, and very much older than me (63). I first met him when I began my first semester in college since he was my professor. At that time, I wasn’t doing emotionally well, suffered from depression, and didn’t have anyone else in my life for support. However this person helped me get through my difficulties, and it grew from there. I first looked up to him as a mentor, began seeing him as a father figure… and then I began having very strong sexual desire for him. The love I feel towards him is real, and I think I will always feel love for him since at the same time, I still look up to him greatly and see him as a father figure. But I do not want to deal with these sexual feelings anymore. Would you by any chance know if there’s a way one can decrease their sexual desire towards someone (more than just finding a boyfriend…)?

I’m 27 and dating a lady who is 28 and a virgin. I’ve never been with a virgin before. How do I go about having sex with her so she enjoys it and doesn’t bleed or get hurt?

I developed it one year ago at age 66. It sometimes subsides for a few days then starts again. I have constant orgasms, often waking me at night. The longest episode lasted almost 4 hrs. In all my research and in talking with doctors, I’ve gotten no real help because my situation is “not a sexual dysfunction.” Can you shed some light? Thanx.

I’m 39. I know penis size is not supposed to matter. But it matters to me, especially now that I’m divorced, and dating again, and hoping to impress women. Can I make it bigger? Can you tell me how to enlarge my penis?

Your article on premature ejaculation really helped my boyfriend. He lasts much longer now, and he’s very happy about that, in fact, thrilled. But now that he can last as long as he wants, it’s often too long for my vagina, and I’ve become irritated down there. I’ve mentioned it and asked him to back off, but he’s so pleased with himself, he’s not really listening. Your advice?

About 2 years ago, I had a sudden diabetes diagnosis of high blood sugar and an A1C of about 7.2 . I got that down since then. But the reason I went in to see a doctor was my erections were dysfunctional and he told me about my sugar issue. Now I am careful with my diet much more and I am concerned that I still have sugar in the 110-115 range fasting. If I take medication to lower this will this help my erections? Or is the higher blood sugar permanently damaging me? Thank you for your insight and help.

The store where I buy vitamins has tons of formulas that hype better, hotter, longer-lasting sex. I guess they are supposedly aphrodisiacs. They contain things like ginseng, maca, yohimbe, and other herbs and vitamins and things I’ve never heard of. Do they work? Are they worth the money?

My husband and I have this fantasy of having a threesome with another lady. But we don’t know how to find a woman who is willing to play with us. How to find a good playmate?

I am a 49-year-old man. The past couple of years I’ve experienced a decrease in sensation when I ejaculate during sex or masturbation. Is this normal for my age? Is there anything I can do to change this?