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I’m 40. Not too many years ago, I used to be able to come and then get a second erection in an hour or two. Now it takes more time, like three or four hours, sometimes longer. Is this normal? What’s happening to me?

My husband and I really enjoy oral sex. I’m okay with him coming in my mouth, but I’m phobic about cum swallowing, which upsets him. I want to please him, but I just can’t seem to swallow. Is there some advice you can give me to get past this?

My husband and I have been married for 27 years. We have a pretty good sex life (once or twice a week), but here is my problem. My husband likes to masturbate while watching pornography. Then afterwards, he is not interested in sex with me for a couple of days, as if he prefers porn to me. If I had my way, I’d have sex every other day. I feel I’m competing with videos on the Internet and frequently losing. I’ve mentioned this to my husband but nothing has changed. What do you suggest? Am I wrong to want him to “save” his sexual feelings for me?

Sir: I am suffering form premature ejaculation. My erection is ok. It erects within 2 to 4 seconds if I am thinking about some sexual thing. But if I masturbate or do sex, I ejaculate within 3 to 4 seconds. Please help me out. Tell me some exercises and about what I should eat especially in fruits and food that help me to cure my problem. My age is 25. I want to avoid medicine and I have not taken any checkup for this. Hope you can help me. Thank you.

Alcohol with sex. Is it healthy ?

It’s not always, but why do I sometimes bleed during sex and also after?

I am 22. So, I have been masturbating for 10 years now with a back massager. Then 3 years ago, I met my boyfriend and I’ve only been able to orgasm through sex 3 times. I am able to get off with oral pleasure or his hand with not too much of a problem but the lack of orgasm during sex is beginning to take a toll on us both. He is really wonderful and we do try different things to help me but nothing helps. Since I can only get off with repeated sensation in a certain area and his penis just doesn’t do it for me, does that mean all the years of using the massager sort of ruined me? And also, what sort of things do you think I can do to help me reach orgasm. I appreciate any advice you can give me.

I’ve always enjoyed making love to my wife while she wears pantyhose. I recently tried them on myself (in secret) and became highly aroused. When I told my wife how much I liked wearing her pantyhose, she flipped out and now thinks I’m gay or crazy. How widespread is this pantyhose fetish and how can I convince my wife to be more accepting of me?

Very interesting site. Very useful information. But I’m insecure about my penis size. Can a woman who had a well endowed boyfriend, then go and marry a guy that is not well endowed? I’m on the small side, 5 1/2″, officially normal, however I fell insecure, and an extra inch or two would be nice. My wife says that I’m the best she has had. How could she feel that way after being with a well-endowed man?

My Husband can’t stay hard long enough to make love.