What should I do with a man who doesn’t want to be touched? I am 35 and in a very good relationship with a older man going on 58. He has weight issues. He currently doesn’t like himself very much, so he can’t get it up. I understand that, but I would still like to touch him to show I am still very attracted to him! But he has asked me not to touch him sexually. I desperately want to touch him. I love him and I want to touch him in intimate places even if it is just a little squeeze every now and then. Should I go ahead and touch him? Or do as he has asked and let him try and lose some pounds…?