Hi! I am 25, and my boyfriend is 49. Despite our huge age difference, we are in love. There is a problem though. He smokes marijuana 2-3 times a day (in a joint or small bong), and it has ruined his erections. He does not maintain one while under the influence and up to many days later. I do not smoke, and would be overjoyed if he would quit. He has been a smoker since he was in high school. It is really having a negative affect on our relationship – though he continues to smoke. He tries to quit, for a few days or so, but generally goes back to smoking right away. Any suggestions?