My husband and I have had great sex for many years. But lately it has been taking me longer to have orgasms and I don’t always have one. He feels frustrated. I have a vibrator I use alone. He knows I have it but refuses to consider using it. He says he’s insulted, that I should only need to use that when he is away, and that if I had a good man I wouldn’t need it. I don’t believe that nor have ever stated it. So I fake orgasms……then use my vibrator to satisfy myself when he is gone. I miss having orgasms with him. What can I do?