My wife hates porn and won’t watch it with me. R-rated movies get her in the mood sort of but she wishes someone would make some sex videos that aren’t XXX-rated. Are there any alternatives to porn?
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Yes. First I suggest that you browse the videos available at SexSmartFilms. This site’s creator, Mark Shoen, is a Ph.D. sex educator, and he has assembled a vast collection of videos ranging from historical (an interview with pioneering sex researcher Alfred Kinsey) to amusing (in Free Videos, check out “Auto Insurance”) to hot erotica that’s NOT PORN (in Premiere Videos, check out the six-part “Heterosexuals’ Guide to Sexual Pleasure,” available for purchase or pay-per-view).
Beyond SexSmartFilms, one of my favorite pieces of non-porn erotica is an instructional movie that many people find quite a turn-on, Ancient Secrets of the Kama Sutra.”
Finally, you might browse the videos produced by Femme Productions. Femme’s founder/producer, Candida Royalle, was a porn actress who got fed up with standard male-fantasy X-rated fare and started making explicit videos with more of a woman’s sensibility. Femme movies are still porn-ish, but they develop characters and relationships more. Two studies have compared women’s reactions to standard porn vs. Femme videos. In both studies, women found the Femme videos more suited to their erotic taste and much more of a turn-on.