My husband is 36 & I’m 30. He doesn’t want to have sex. I try to turn him on but … nothing 🙁 I feel not wanted. He won’t kiss or touch me either. Or please me. When we have sex, he’ll only do it missionary’s style. Takes him less them 5 minutes to finish … then he just leaves me there like I’m nothing. I’m ashamed of myself. I wish he’d caress my lady parts. I want kisses and once in a while a little oral. But he won’t do that!! Most of the time I feel unattractive. I want sex every day but we do it maybe once or twice a month—and I don’t come. It’s sad. My friends talk bout their amazing sex lives, and in my head I’m thinking, I wish I could say the same bout mine. So when they ask me, I’m like, “Mine’s good too.” But it’s terrible. I talk to my husband about it but its like I’m talking to the Wall. So now I just stay quiet, hoping he’ll someday please me how I deserve to be pleased. I’ve been reading some sexual magazines but he’d rather just get oral sex from me than have sex with me. I’m doing my part, but he’s not him. I love my husband with all my heart. I’ve never thought of cheating. That’s something I’ll never do. Help!