He sends me his pictures in the nude. Is it normal?
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He sends me his pictures in the nude. Is it normal?
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“Normal” has two meanings: “popular” and “generally accepted as the way things are.” Is sending nude photos a popular pastime? It is with some people, though they constitute a small minority of the population. Is it generally accepted? Yes, among some folks, but not among the majority.
So what are we to make of his sending you photos of himself in the nude? Either he’s very proud of his physique or he’s offering himself sexually or both.
The real issue here is what YOU think. Do you like this? Or not? Either way, I suggest you let him know. If you want him to stop, I urge you to be emphatic about it and tell him that you don’t want his pictures.
Meanwhile, the title of your question–over-sexed/under-sexed–implies a desire difference between the two of you. Desire differences are very common, in fact inevitable in long-term relationships. If you’re struggling with this issue, I urge you to read the article on desire differences.
You say you’re under-sexed … or perhaps you’re simply uninformed about it. You cannot learn about sex by listening to others tell you what is good or bad. It’s up to you to see if oral sex works for you or not. Find out for yourself. It’s like closed-mouth kissing vs. open-mouth, your choice but I’d suggest trying all three before you make up your mind. I’ve never meet a woman who enjoyed sex who disliked French kissing.
I recommend that you watch or read some hot X-rated videos or stories, and pay attention to what your mind and body tells you. Be fair to yourself. if you can’t accept sex for what it really is, you may be lonely, but there it is again–your choice. Trrebel