Threesme - Woman standing between two men

So I’ve been trying to get my wife to open up more about sexual experimentation. Then I had a good friend over at our house for a few drinks. We were drinking in the kitchen with the wife, who got pretty drunk. After a while I had to use the restroom. I heard my friend yell, “What the fuck?!” I peek back in and she is pulling at his belt trying to get to his junk. I said nothing. Here she was being experimental, and I was OK with it. As I return, I come around the corner and she’s still in front of him but kneeling and he had his head back and eyes closed. I see her giving him head. That was our first threesome and it lasted quite a while. The next morning, hung over, she claimed she didn’t remember anything and didn’t want to talk about it because if what I said happened really happened, she regretted everything. Meanwhile, I’m convinced part of her loved it. My question: Why should I believe she doesn’t remember anything?

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  • Michael Castleman says:

    When people get very drunk, some black out, and the next morning don’t remember anything. That might be the case with your wife. Or, if she does remember your threesome, maybe she feels embarrassed or regretful or manipulated, and doesn’t want to repeat this (mis)adventure. I can’t say. I don’t know her. If you want to repeat threesomes with your wife and a friend, I suggest you try for it sober. That way no one can deny anything happened. BTW: I think it’s manipulative and wrong to get women drunk to push any sexual agenda on them.

  • eager4ecstacy says:

    michael, there was no “agenda”, the friend that was over has been close to us for a very long time and been friends with me for over 20 years, he had also just gone through a breakup which is why we decided to drink this particular friday night.
    now, ill try to summarize that evenings events so its more clear as to what happened.
    –after work i called my wife and asked if she would like to drink with us later becase it had been a long week and my friend was dealing with his split, she said “sure, i wouldnt mind drinking, i havent partied in a long time! you know i hate beer so just get me my usual bottle of vodka.”
    –later that night after we had all been drinking, my friend and myself we in the kitchen talking about work and cars, probably some talk about sound systems too, when i needed to relieve myself and as i went to walk out i pass my wife crawling into the kitchen, shortly after my friend yells “wtf do i do man?!”
    i peek around the corner and she was pulling on his belt, i thought she was thinking that my friend was actually me and that she would realize it was someone else fairly quick, so i replied with “fuck it! whatever happens, happens!” then continued to the restroom.
    upon returning to the kitchen i see she hasnt moved from my friend but shes not pulling his pants anymore, as i get closer and step beside him almost shoulder to shoulder i look down to see her head bobbing back and forth, surpising me i watched him grow in her mouth as he nervously asked me if i was really ok with what was happening.
    –fast forward after we had taken turns and swapped positions all night, we all wake up and none of us seemed to have any kind of awkward feelings or regret right off, once me and my wife were alone and i asked her about it she basically said “wrong person, wrong time” and over time and claimed to not remember anything that had happened, then eventually she started saying more about that nights events when i brought it up and she would add one more detail with each conversation. the one thing she seemed to regret was who the other guy involved was so after that i began trying to get her to open up to at least the thought of trying another threesome with someone else and a short while after she decided that it could be fun as long as the third didnt penetrate and that she would onlt give him head. the new guy that i had in mind to join us was our closest friend and we both trusted him completely, we had already had countless sex talks about everything from why i have a strong desire to hear both of them give details that they notice and like about my dick because ive always been self concious about being uncut all the way to the things that dive her crazy and how shes never even felt a cut dick and even talked about differences in pierced vs. non pierced nipples which ended with her making us each feel her breasts and then swapping since she only had one pierced at hte time.
    so, there is a little evidence that leads me to believe she remembers more about the first night than she claims but she doesnt like talking about it maybe because she doesnt want to think of the other guy?
    but she did tell me the reason she initiated it was to try and make him happy because his girlfriend that he had split from had really upset him, but why initiate something that hadnt even been talked about with your husband prior to, and why do something so drastic?
    that night gave me a ton of exciting questions that i wanted to talk to her about, a lot of curiosities and an entire new category or sex i never imagined i would have been ok with, since then ive wanted to talk about it any chance ive gotten and i feel that she wants to enjoy it more than she admits but she doesnt know how to open herself up to it or shes scared that i will end up judging her.

    sorry for the back and forth rant, like i said, this subject excites me.
    to reiterate, nothing was planned, she wasnt cornered or forced, im not that type of guy and if i had sensed any kind of negative energy from her i would have stopped everything.

  • Michael Castleman says:

    It sounds like your wife is fairly open to threesome play—under circumstances that feel right for her. That should give you a great deal to discuss.

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