My husband and I are 60 and 59 respectively. We have been married since 1999. The first 9 years of our marriage we had sex 2-3 times a week. We experienced a tragic loss (one of our children) and through the grieving process, we lost touch with sexual intimacy. We are very happy together, share physical affection like cuddling, hugging, holding hands, and we communicate but sex just ….doesn’t work. It doesn’t make either of us feel good, it reminds us of deep sadness. Thank you for your time.