23 F. Virgin. I have the biggest desire to go give an ex-coworker a blow job. Go for it? Or no?

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  • Michael Castleman says:

    It’s really up to you. But I urge you to be clear about your motivation. Is this a one-off, a blow and go that reflects being friends with benefits? Or is this your way of opening discussion about more of a romantic relationship? Either way is fine, but please be clear about what you want so you feel grounded the morning after.

    If you go for it, then the issue becomes how? How would you raise the subject and make your generous offer? Have you thought about that? Or what you would say/phone/text/email? I suggest a bit of rehearsal beforehand.

    If you go for it, are you planning to be sober or drunk? IMHO too many young folks experience early partner sex while too drunk. Alcohol relaxes inhibitions, which is why it’s the prelude to so much sex. But drunk sex is rarely great sex. Alcohol distracts from the erotic focus that sex deserves. Alcohol also increases young women’s risk of sexual assault. If you want to be in an altered state for the gift you’re offering, weed might be a better alternative.

    If you go for it, have you considered the issue of semen in your mouth? If he comes while you’re blowing him, that’s what you’re likely to receive. Are you okay with that? What about swallowing? How do you feel about that? If semen in the mouth is not your thing, then I suggest that you insist on a condom-covered blow job.

    You didn’t mention how much sex play you’ve engaged in, but you say you’re a virgin. That’s fine. People get into partner sex on their own personal timetables. But you might want to prepare for your erotic future with a little information. I suggest my low-cost e-book. Its 134 articles deal with all aspects of sexuality. Check out the Table of Contents in the Info Library. My e-book comes with a money-back guarantee so no risk to you.

    And whatever you decide about offering your friend fellatio, I hope you feel at peace with your decision. Good luck!

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