I really need to have this question answered please, even if you just email me back. Can a man achieve an orgasm by sticking a dildo (or anything else) up his rear end without there being any stimulation whatsoever to the penis. The penis was never touched, or rubbed just the anus exclusively. I was told it is impossible, but I found a website that said strict anal sex for a man is better than any sex he could ever have with his wife. Desperate for a straight honest answer.

Confused

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  • Michael Castleman says:

    Theoretically, sure, a man can have an orgasm without having his penis touched using just an anal dildo. Young men have orgasms while sleeping (wet dreams) without having their penises fondled, so penile stimulation is not necessary for male orgasm.

    The real question is, can YOU have an orgasm from only anal dildo play? The answer is: I don’t know. Most men stop having wet dreams in their twenties and after that need genital fondling. But with sufficient anal stimulation and perhaps some visual stimulation (e.g. porn that turns you on), it still might be possible for you to come from just anal dildo play. Use lots of lube and do whatever you do to become highly aroused. Good luck.

    You say a Web site asserted that “strict anal sex for a man is better than any sex he could ever have with his wife.” The site is wrong, wrong, wrong. Different people have different preferences for the kind of sex they enjoy–and enjoy best. To say that one type of sex is better than another is ridiculous. It all comes down to personal preference. Please send me that site’s URL so I can register my strenuous objection to the assertion you quoted.

  • Wendy says:

    Although I am unsure about no genital touching, it is quite possible to increase sexual pleasure by massaging the prostate via the rectum with a dildo or even fingers. At least that is what my husband has said…

  • sire416 says:

    YES!!!!! you can. I use a 10-inch dildo in different ways but the one that works for me is standing up and bent over a bed. In this way, I have had orgasm after orgasm and I mean mind blowing orgasms and I mean it. The orgasms keep coming from both my ass and penis at the same time that my whole body starts to shake. So yes, you can have a orgasm without touching your penis. When you do jack off while riding a dildo in your ass, the orgasm is greeeeeat. Hope this helps. Have fun. I am.

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