How do I know if a girl wants to do sex?
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How do I know if a girl wants to do sex?
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Sex feels best when it’s an outgrowth of friendship combined with mutual whole-body massage. First I’d suggest becoming good friends with a girl who attracts you. Then one of the many things you can discuss is mutual attraction. You can declare that you would like to be more than friends and ask how she feels about that.
If she feels attracted to you, too, then discuss how you would like to proceed. For most people, moving from friendship to a sexual relationship involves many steps: kissing, more passionate kissing with embracing/cuddling, then gently touching/massaging one another all over, then partly undressing with more gentle touching/massage all over, then complete undressing with more gentle touching/massage, then touching/massaging each others genitals, and finally, other forms of genital play—oral sex and intercourse. Talk about things at every step. Tell her how you feel and ask how she feels, what she feels comfortable doing. Never push any girl to be sexual in ways that make her feel uncomfortable or resistant. That’s sexual assault.
Young men are often more eager for sexual experimentation than young women. For mutual enjoyment, you need real mutual consent. Talk to her every step of the way. Ask how she feels, what she feels comfortable doing. Never push her beyond her comfort zone.
I hope you have erotic fun with real mutual consent.