My husband has no libido at all. He ls 63 and takes blood pressure meds and a staten called Repatha which I’ve read may case decreased libido. Can my marriage make it? We’ve been married 35 years, but this is very difficult. We do hug and he puts his leg over mine but no more. l am 62. Does this mean I can never have sex again? He can still get hard, but he has an enlarged prostate. so when he has an orgasm, he has to urinate all night long—l mean like every 10 minutes as orgasm irritates his prostate. l’d like sex once in awhile to keep me happy. Or am l being selfish?? He says it’s not me, that he just has no urge to have sex. But, hello, he can still have erections and could do other things to please me. But if he has no desire, l don’t want him to do what he has no interest in doing. Can hugging and him putting his leg over mine when sitting on the couch be enough to make this marriage work?? Or do you think he is being selfish? l am not in the mood much either. l just want to feel that l’m loved. BTW: l know he is not cheating as he’s always home. Please help.