I love talking dirty in bed, using words like pussy, cunt, suck, and fuck. But my girlfriend is offended by my dirty mouth and wants me to use more polite terms. The thing is, I feel weird saying: I love your vagina and want to have intercourse with you. I want to say: I love your pussy and want to fuck you. What’s wrong with that?
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Absolutely nothing. There’s nothing wrong with talking dirty—if you both like that. But she doesn’t, and that’s her right. If you continue to talk dirty, you run the risk of turning her off to sex with you.
You say you “feel weird” using clinical terms. Okay, there’s nothing wrong with feeling that way. But perhaps there are terms you can enjoy using that she can abide. Instead of pussy or cunt, how about kitty, kitten, sex, womanhood? Instead of cock, how about rooster, sex, manhood? Instead of fuck, how about “do,” as in I want to do you. Or how about making a deal that you can talk dirty once or twice during sex and talk the way she prefers the rest of the time?
There’s no right or wrong here, just what works for the two of you. I urge you to negotiate language that’s mutually acceptable.
She deserves respect in or out of bed Man you need to respect and treat her as a Queen