I’m a 53-year-old woman going through the Big Change. I’ve started to notice dryness down there. I’m using KY Jelly, but it reminds me of going to the gynecologist. Not very sexy. What can I do?


  • Michael Castleman says:

    I suggest expanding your lubricant horizons. Have you ever tried vegetable or olive oil? Some lovers like that. Or, near the KY at your pharmacy, you should find other lubricants, products like Probe and AstroGlide. Try a few. Chances are you’ll like one of them. If not, then our sex toy affiliate, Adam & Eve carries other lubes. And if you’d like more information about the four different kinds of lubricants and how best to incorporate lube into lovemaking, check out the Info Library, the article “Lubricants: The Slippery Secret of Sensational Sex.”

  • erica says:

    I just wanted to second the suggestion to try different lubes. There’s a zillion alternatives, including all the KY varieties. You can also try silicone lubes if you like a much thinner, oilier texture.

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