A bit about me:
1.) I’m 59 years old.
2.) I’ve had 4 strokes, which have been progressively worse in terms of mobility impairment.
3.) I’m currently being treated for skin cancer.
4.) Therefore, I suspect that my life will end sometime within the next 10 years.
5.) For reasons strongly related to the fact that I became a Christian at the age of 13, I’m still a virgin.
6.) I’m willing to do a lot of things for God. Dying without ever getting laid, however, is not one of those things. I’d have greatly preferred to do it within the context of marriage. However, I’ve never believed in “salvation through good works”. If I have to throw myself on God’s mercy, because I’ve resorted to a visitation at a legal brothel, I’m willing to do that, if the money is there for such a visit.
7.) It’s not as if I have a lot of money with which to pay for such a trip. My current income comes exclusively from SSI payments. I’ll need to somehow figure out a way to supplement my current income, in order to check off that item on my “bucket list.”
Your feedback will be appreciated.
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You’re by no means the only older virgin. For more on older virginity, read my article on the subject.
You’re also by no means alone in wanting to be sexual despite serious illness. For more, read my article.
Now about transcending your virginity, you mention the possibility of visiting a legal brothel. Yes, you could do that … but commercial sex is rarely very satisfying sex, especially for men who are not sexually experienced. The approach I’d recommend is the one I discuss in my article about older virginity, a surrogate partner. Surrogacy is controversial because you pay for it and some call it prostitution. But that is misinformed. Unlike the vast majority of sex workers, who hope that clients come and go quickly, surrogate partners are lovemaking teachers who introduce older virgins to the joy of whole-body sensuality. Many don’t have intercourse with clients, though some do. In your situation, age 59 with a history of several strokes, I’m guessing that intercourse may not be possible for you. But you can still be sexual in other fulfilling ways, and if you’re interested in that, I’d urge you to contact the International Professional Surrogates Association for a referral to a surrogate partner in your area who can accommodate your financial constraints.
Good luck!