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I’m a teen. I have a fwb for about a week but I have dated him in the past. He wants to remain friends but i want to be more than fwb. It’s sooo hard. When I talk about it, he denies his feelings. We become fwb because we both just got outta relationships and were bored and all I do anymore is think nonstop about him. What should I do?

I have been married for 20 years. After my wife had our first child she went completely off sex for about nine months. We now have sex once or twice a month. I suffer from premature ejaculation but sometimes feel if we had sex more often then I might be able to solve this problem. The lack of sex in our relationship is a strain. Any advice?

hello, I’m 20 years old and I have a really amazing girlfriend. But what really turns me on is thinking about me and another lad trying stuff. I know if I asked her she would say no, but I have a friend who’s gay and he said that he’d try stuff with me and won’t tell. I think about it every day and I really want to try it. I just want to get it off my mind. I spoke to her before about it but she didn’t like it, so should i just go and try it and not tell her to get it off my mind?

When i was  turning 19, I  suffered a MASSIVE brain bleed (caused by an an arterial-venal malformation no one knew I had). I was put into a chemical coma for almost a month, was unconcious for six months, and spent more than a year in hospitals. the doctors said that IF I survived, I would be a vegetable. This is funny, because now, at age 23, I’m about to  start college, and hope to be  MANY college girls’ first mate in a wheelchair. My injury left me with a semi-paralyzed left side (and even though i’m left handed, i am typing with my right hand), loss of balance (no walking until i re-learn to walk), and other problems…

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When I ‘woke up’ from the coma, I noticed taht my penis is now curved to the right AND at times the head pulses (not a throbbing feeling, I ACTUALLY SEE the head of my penis getting involuntarily bigger and smaller. Now I can imagine that this pulsing might enhance sex. How can I control it? And why/how did my penis become curved? It was perfectly straight before. ( I’m not complaining. I just want to know why?)

I’m taking gardasil injections to PROTECT ME from most warts and herpes, but I’m very afraid of HIV.  Any advice about preventing HIV besides wrapping my tool?

Plz DON’T think this is a joke. I’m actually being serious here, this took me some time to type…

My wife and I tried anal sex,  and being ignorant, didn’t use lube at first so it was uncomfortable for her. Me, I was hooked. I love the power,  mystique, and taboo of it, and love the feeling of ejaculating in her anus. We have triedit  with lube since but our earlier experience turned her off and she didn’t want it. I don’t want to pressure her, so we stopped. But I still want anal. Recently, she suggested getting a vibrator, saying she might try backdoor action again. Hmmm. Seems she’s open to it. What vibrator is good? I’ve heard the We-Vibe II is best but let me know. I like anal stimulation and having fun down there as well. I get all caught up into it when we’re having regular sex and want her to experience it again with me. Suggestions?

I want to buy some articles, but I’m concerned about where they go? Do you send them to my home address?

Hi! My penis size was 6 inch and now a year later, it comes to 4.5 inches!!! My penis erection is poor. My age is 41 years. Any treatment for that?

I had sex using a condom 2 hours after shaving my balls with shaving cream and it burns me……can I get infected with hiv?

Hi! I am 25, and my boyfriend is 49. Despite our huge age difference, we are in love. There is a problem though. He smokes marijuana 2-3 times a day (in a joint or small bong), and it has ruined his erections. He does not maintain one while under the influence and up to many days later. I do not smoke, and would be overjoyed if he would quit. He has been a smoker since he was in high school. It is really having a negative affect on our relationship – though he continues to smoke. He tries to quit, for a few days or so, but generally goes back to smoking right away. Any suggestions?

My penis measures 10 cm (about 4 inches) in erection. Is this normal? Will my size cause sexual problems with my wife? In addition, I have a small layer of fat on the pubis. I hope to have an operation to remove the fat. Are there any risks to my penis?