My wife and girlfriend complain that I go flaccid as soon as I ejaculate, almost instantly. My girlfriend says her husband remains hard for at least 1 or 2 minutes after ejaculation which makes her come twice ….sometime thrice. I am 40 and no significant health problems. Still I don’t have great sex life. I don’t feel like going for sex every after few days. It’s often once or twice a month. Then I come first and go soft instantly!! I’ve also been doing kegels. Do you think that will help in the long run?