How do you get women to stop believing their partner has to have a large penis? I have been told by past girlfriends that I have a small penis and they are breaking up with me to find someone with a large penis. People say size doesn’t matter and yet women seem to go for the guy that has the largest bulge in their pants. Why is that?
I’m sorry this has happened to you. On the one hand, people are free to judge prospective lovers by any idiosyncratic measures they choose: age, race, height, weight, religion, breast size (popular among men), and yes, penis size, too. But on the other hand, one would hope that prospective lovers judged us based on who we truly are as human beings and not on a minor anatomical detail we can’t change.
I don’t know who you’ve been dating, but it strikes me that women who judge men by penis size are shallow, insensitive creatures who are clueless about men’s feelings and their own erotic pleasure. Oh sure, some women enjoy feeling “stretched” and “filled up” and a larger penis does that slightly better than a smaller one. But women’s pleasure center is NOT the vagina, but the clitoris, which sits outside the vagina and above it at the top junction of the vaginal lips. Most women prefer a man with any size penis who’s eager to provide patient, playful, whole-body massage and extended cunnilingus to a guy with a phone pole between his legs who just wants to shove that turkey into the nearest fleshy opening.
Now it’s also possible that women who decide to break up with you for other reasons don’t want to or can’t articulate them, and focus instead on something they CAN talk about–your size. I just don’t know.
No one can “make” women stop believing that men should have big ones. But if you’d like to learn all about penis size, including safe, inexpensive ways to make the most of that you’ve got, then read my article on penis size. And I hope you find a good woman who knows that a man with a kind heart is better than a guy with an extra inch.