I’m a 54-year-old man. I was never interested in anything kinky beyond reading The Story of O in college. But over the last few years, my erections have gone from fair to poor, and now intercourse is pretty much impossible. Meanwhile, all of a sudden, I want my wife to dress up in corsets and spike heels and I want to spank her. She likes lingerie and is happy to wear corsets, but she’s not into being spanked. She says I’m upset with my erection loss and want to vent my anger by spanking her. No! I know she has nothing to do with my ED. I don’t want to spank her hard, just enough to hear the smack and turn her butt a little pink. But I can’t explain why I’m suddenly interested in spanking her. Do I subconsciously want to punish her for my ED? She says I need a shrink. What do you say? BTW: I’ve tried the drugs and they haven’t done much for me.