Man Lying Awake In Bed

My wife is not interested in anything anal. I respect that but I absolutely love the odd time when she is willing to touch mine so much that I find myself constantly touching my asshole while masturbating, and have purchased a rather large butt plug that she doesn’t know about (yet). I really enjoy inserting it. Should I tell her I have it?

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  • Michael Castleman says:

    I don’t know your wife at all, so I have no idea how she would react to the news that you enjoy using a butt plug during self-sexing.

    You are right to respect her wishes regarding anal play. No one should ever feel pressured or coerced into being sexual in ways they find off-putting.

    That said, some people who have visceral reactions against anal play soften their attitudes if they learn a bit more about it. For example, many people believe that anal play is disgusting and dirty. Actually, if the anus and lower anal canal get washed with soap and water beforehand, touching, fingering, and even licking the area are all safe and hygienic. Many people also believe that only a tiny fraction of the population engages in anal play. Actually, it’s fairly popular. My new book, Sizzling Sex for Life, contains a chapter that provides a friendly, comprehensive introduction to anal play with all the information backed up by dozens of research studies. You might consider buying a copy and suggesting she read that chapter. Her reactions to that should provide some insight into whether or not you could feel comfortable revealing that you play with a butt plug solo.

    I wish you sizzling sex for life!

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