You really seem to know what your talking about in your article about possible reasons for looseness of a women’s vagina. I’m not a very secure person to begin with. I admit that. But here is my situation. I’m begging for some kind of advice on the matter before I throw away the last 11 years of my life. I have been with the same girl for over 11 years now. When we got together she had one of the tightest vaginas I have ever come across in my life—granted I haven’t come across to many but enough to know she was tight. No matter how long the foreplay lasted, and no matter how wet she got. She was always tight. We’ve had two children together and after our second child her vagina snapped right back into shape and she was tight again like she never had a baby. But recently, I’ve noticed that when we have intercourse her vagina is, how do I put this in the best way…blown right out. It’s like throwing a hotdog down a hallway. I don’t feel her and she acts like she’s just not into it and she still feels loose. I also have to tell you they we just entered out 30s. I know age plays a roll but we don’t have sex very often at all anymore. Maybe 3 or 4 times a year so how could she feel so loose if it isn’t even being used is my question. I really need to your advice.