Hello, I need some advice. I’m having a problem with accepting that I have a small penis which causes me to ejaculate fast and I don’t even enjoy sex like I use to. My partner claims that she enjoys having sex but I can’t except it cuz I have a small penis. Can u give me any advice or help on my psychological thinking?
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I urge you, beg you, exhort you, plead with you to listen to your partner. She says she enjoys sex with you. I repeat: She tells you that she enjoys sex with you. Now please take a few deep breaths and read on:
Chances are VERY SMALL, as it were, that you have an unusually small penis and erection. The vast majority of men are in the normal range. Whether flaccid or erect, size depends on the amount of blood that flows into the organ. When men are relaxed, the arteries that carry blood into the penis open and more blood flows in, making you larger. However, if you’re stressed for any reason, those arteries narrow, less blood flows into the penis, and you look smaller. The stress of worrying about your size makes you smaller. So stop worrying about your size and you’ll look larger. For more on penis size, I urge you to read my low-cost articles on Penis Size: Making the Most of What You’ve Got, and How Women REALLY Feel About Penis Size.
Now about your premature ejaculation: Stress also plays a major role in PE. So worrying about your size contributes to your coming before you want to. Fortunately, over the past 60 years, sex therapists have developed a program that teaches men to last as long as they wish. I’ve distilled the program in my low-cost e-booklet, The Cure for Premature Ejaculation. It works best with a lover, and you have one. I bet that if the two of you work your way through the easy, enjoyable program, you’ll learn to have ejaculatory control in a few months.
This may come as a surprise, but only 25% of women are consistently orgasmic from vaginal intercourse—no matter how long it lasts and no matter what the man’s size. Most women need gentle, direct stimulation of the clitoris from hand massage, oral sex (cunnilingus), or a vibrator. If you want to be a good lover, I suggest you read these low-cost articles: The Clitoris: New Insights, Why So Many Women Don’t Have Orgasms, and Caressing Women: Advanced Lovemaking Tips for Men.
Finally, you can purchase the low-cost articles I’ve suggested individually, or for only a little more, you can buy my low-cost e-book, which contains all of them plus over 100 more.
I hope you share my reply with your partner. I also hope that the two of you work through the last-longer program, and read my E-book together. If you do, chances are excellent that you’ll stop stressing about your size, and last as long as you want. You’ll also understand women’s sexuality better and become a better lover in a better, more intimate relationship.
Good luck, and if you still have questions after reading the material I’ve suggested, please feel free to contact me again.