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With oral sex, my female partner likes my penis enlarging and getting hard in her mouth. What is the equivalent experience for me with her? Can I get the same feeling with her areole and nipples in my mouth? I am new to oral sex.


  • Michael Castleman says:

    You can probably have a similar experience. During sexual arousal, most women’s nipples become noticeably firmer. Their clitorises do, too. I hasten to add that while this happens with most women, not all experience this, including possibly your lover. And among those women whose nipples and clits do become firmer, it’s often subtle, so pay close attention.

    You say you’re new to oral sex. In that case the chapter on it in my new book, Sizzling Sex for Life, should be able to enhance the pleasure you and your partner experience during fellatio (cock sucking) and cunnilingus (pussy eating). And if you’re new to oral, I’m guessing that you may be unfamiliar with the many fine points of lovemaking and sexual pleasure. The 52 chapters in Sizzling Sex discuss all aspects of lovemaking. The book’s website contains brief summaries of all of them.

    I wish you sizzling sex for life!

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